I feel embarrassed writing this letter to you. Having spoken to my mother and some close friends at length, I have decided that my boyfriend is really stingy when it comes to money.
We are both in our 20s, he is a couple of years older than me.
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He has a really good job with benefits that I could only dream. I live at home, pay rent, pay all of my own bills, buy my own food, have a loan for my car and am saving every penny I have for a mortgage deposit so I can finally get on the property ladder. I pay my own health care. We're together half a year. We pay halves for all our meals out and buy our own cinema and concert tickets.
I have suggested several times in a subtle way that we could treat each other from time to time but he prefers to just go halves.
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Big black dominant women in Australia, he clearly has a lot more money than me and earns a lot.
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He bought me one bunch of flowers for Valentine's Day, that's it. I'm feeling really hard done by as I am a very kind and generous person - for someone who doesn't have a lot. I often take food that I've bought to his house to cook meals for us.
We also take turns driving places.
I'm not sure how to speak to him about this money issue without offending him or without sounding noyfriend a 'gold-digger' because I most certainly am not.
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